Comments on: The Sweet, Strange Mystery of a First Date

By: Dominique Williams

Dominique Williams — Sun, 22 Apr 2018 12:47:28 +0000

I so enjoyed this piece. I went on a first date last night and had an admirable time. It began raining at the end but he was a true gentleman and ran to get the car so I wouldn’t get wet. Does the rain signify anything on first dates? At the end of the dinner he stated, “I have one last question, would you like to do this again”. Needless to say, I smiled and said of course.

Cheers to the POSSIBILITIES!
Dominique

By: Julie Rybarczyk

Julie Rybarczyk — Sat, 13 Jan 2018 16:16:46 +0000

In reply to Kathryn. Kathryn! This made my day. I love that you were inspired to recreate that first date. So sweet and meaningful. And YES to first dates with friends. Thank you for the kind words, Kathryn!

By: Julie Rybarczyk

Julie Rybarczyk — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 18:30:00 +0000

In reply to Patricia.

Oh, Patricia – I hear you! I’ve been there! It does feel daunting and scary, and it kinda is. But it can also be fun. 🙂 I’m with these other girls – I say go for it. I’ve met some great guys on Match. Either way, it’s an adventure for sure. We’re all cheering for you!!

By: Kathryn

Kathryn — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 17:34:49 +0000

As with all of your other pieces, Julie, I so enjoyed reading this one. In fact, it inspired me to recreate my first date with my husband! Sometimes life can get so hectic and we can forget how precious sweet moments like meeting someone for the first time can be. Thank you for this reminder.

PS – I LOVE your idea of first dates with friends!!

By: Kathryn

Kathryn — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 17:32:06 +0000

In reply to Patricia. I agree with Amy! I say go for it, Patricia!!

By: Amy

Amy — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 16:02:55 +0000

In reply to Patricia. Go for it, Patricia! And report back. :)

By: Patricia

Patricia — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 03:31:55 +0000

At 60 years old, I am contemplating dipping my toes back into dating. I was married for 35 years, and have now been single for 6. It seems so scary and daunting but even my kids are telling me it’s time.The problem is I haven’t met anyone who even seems like someone I would date, or else everyone is married. Should I sign up for Match?? This is what everyone says I should do, and just weed through the bad ones until I find my prince lol. Anyway, I really enjoyed reading your post, it gave me a lot to think about 🙂

By: Julie Rybarczyk

Julie Rybarczyk — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 16:45:09 +0000

In reply to Racjel.

I totally hear you, Racjel. “First dates” when I was younger weren’t the same at all. Often they were just friendships that blossomed into more. Which, actually, I think is the most beautiful way for a relationship to begin. It just becomes so much harder (and stranger) to try to meet people once you’re older. 😉 I miss those days – enjoy it! And thank you for the kind words. Truly means a lot. xo

By: Julie Rybarczyk

Julie Rybarczyk — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 01:30:18 +0000

In reply to Eva.

You’re so right. Eva. It’s like opening a gift. By the way, I also love having BFF first dates – meeting new friends and discovering what happens! It’s almost just as fun. Thank you for reading and for the kind words!

By: Julie Rybarczyk

Julie Rybarczyk — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 01:26:29 +0000

In reply to Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog. Charmaine - I love how we all have our seasons of life. I say enjoy that guy you have, and your 312th date. ;)

By: Racjel

Racjel — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 00:58:30 +0000

I’m still young, haven’t been in a serious relationship and first dates don’t have the same air to them as they do for you yet. But your comment on not dismissing the person is so important. Loved this read <3 Thanks Julie!

By: Eva

Eva — Wed, 10 Jan 2018 22:48:30 +0000

I love this Julie! I’ve been with my husband for about 13 years and though I don’t have any real experience with first dates, I’m a little sad that I haven’t gone on many. It seems like such a fresh slate, and at the same time, I really enjoy meeting new people. I also enjoy the story of the people I meet, who they are, what challenges they face, it always feels like opening a bit of a present.

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By: Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog

Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog — Wed, 10 Jan 2018 16:04:33 +0000

I really liked this post! I’ve been with my boyfriend for over six years now so I don’t really know what a “first date” feels like anymore. This makes me feel so nostalgic!
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