Comments on: On the Other Side of Boredom is Contemplation: How Quietness Can Help Center You https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/ A Lifestyle Blog Sun, 11 Jul 2021 22:17:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592275 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:39:20 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592275 In reply to DAKSHA HATHI.

Ha! Of course — I should have known to mention the way that pets and animals can also teach us this skill 🙂

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592274 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:38:41 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592274 In reply to Jim.

Thanks so much!

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592273 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:38:22 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592273 In reply to Rachelle.

Whoa! Six months without WiFi — you could have a book deal by the end of that kind of endurance exercise! I would love to hear more about this experience as you enter into it, and what boredom looks like for 24-year-old you. And ahh, I am *so* happy to hear that you’re interrogating the precepts and traditions you were raised with. A lot of people don’t undertake that task and either keep it without asking questions, or desert it as soon as there’s a hiccup. I think it takes wrestling, and I hope your wrestling is fruitful! xox

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592272 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:34:56 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592272 In reply to cara mengobati ejakulasi dini.

Las Ventanas looks amazing — it wouldn’t be hard to unplug and bask in the present moment there at all!

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592270 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:33:32 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592270 In reply to ivana split.

YES, YES, YES! 🙌🏻 You totally nailed it. What are we really *doing* when we’re just distracting ourselves from being bored, anyway? In most cases, boredom is the way better option:)

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592269 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:32:19 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592269 In reply to Steven L Perrin.

Steven: thank you!! Both for your kind words and for the book recommendation. I hadn’t heard of it before, but I just added it to my cart — I can’t wait to read it!

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592267 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:30:53 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592267 In reply to Ana María Alcántara López.

That’s such a good way of putting it! There’s a lot of research that suggests the internet can rewire our brains (just like all habits and addictions!). But when I step back and think about what my kid-brain, I feel especially eager to try to re-train my mind to do what it used to be able to do!

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592265 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:20:24 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592265 In reply to Julie Rybarczyk.

Julie! This makes me so happy. I can’t wait to hear how this renewed effort is going for you! xox

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By: Ellen Koneck https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-592264 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 21:19:50 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-592264 In reply to Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog.

I completely agree! I don’t always relish it like I should, though! 🙂

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By: DAKSHA HATHI https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-591361 Sun, 01 Apr 2018 13:22:05 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-591361 very useful and illuminating post. My cats teach it to me every single day as well!

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By: Links I Love: 3/30/18 – Hello Thea https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-591182 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 00:41:53 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-591182 […] In a world of overstimulation, can boredom and quietness be a good thing? This amazing read explores the topic: On the Other Side of Boredom is Contemplation: How Quietness Can Help Center You […]

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By: Jim https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-590611 Tue, 27 Mar 2018 16:18:41 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-590611 Creative idea! Love it!

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By: Rachelle https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-590601 Tue, 27 Mar 2018 15:24:05 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-590601 I have been thinking about this as we prepare to spend the next six months with no wifi in our home. Yesterday I was struck with the thought that I will be bored, something I haven’t truly felt in years. Your reflections on childhood resonated with me so strongly! I would rearrange my room, read poetry, make endless crafts, and let my imagination take over. I am excited to find out what boredom looks like for 24 year old me. I also appreciate the way you speak of prayer in this article. I am deconstructing the Christian religion I was brought up with, finding what I can hold onto and what I can let go of. With prayer I’ve landed on contemplation and meditation. Less talking and more listening/silence. Thank you for this article!

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By: cara mengobati ejakulasi dini https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-590181 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 01:48:46 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-590181 couldn’t recommend Las Ventanas more. While it is not lost on me that trips like these are a luxury, I wish an experience like this for everyone. I hope you enjoy this fun glimpse into our much-needed girls trip!

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By: ivana split https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-590106 Sun, 25 Mar 2018 22:12:06 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-590106 What a thoughtfully written article!

I’ve read about this subject before, but the way you explain it me made me want to get rid off my cell phone (or at least refrain from scrolling for days).

Paradoxically, boredom can result in better productivity. Boredom gives our brain a chance to rest. You made me realize why we need to set time aside for- boredom.

We are so trained ‘to do’ something all the time, then we sometimes pretend (even to ourselves) that we are doing something. After all, what are we really doing when we’re flipping channels, answers emails and talking on the phone- sometimes the more we do, the less we manage to get done.

Allowing ourselves to sit down, to do nothing is so important so that we could recharge, especially when it comes to recharging so we could create creative content.

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By: Steven L Perrin https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-590081 Sun, 25 Mar 2018 18:44:08 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-590081 This was a great read. If it was on paper I would say it was a page turner. Another good book on the subject is Still Bored in a Culture of Entertainment: Rediscovering Passion and Wonder by Richard winter. Keep up the good writing Ellen, and talking about religion and politics at the dinner table.

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By: Ana MarĂ­a Alcántara LĂłpez https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-589846 Sat, 24 Mar 2018 18:35:39 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-589846 I loved this post so much! It’s a common thought shared with some of my friends, all of us eighties children. I adore internet but very often I find myself missing my previous brain and all the different ways that I had to fill it with knowledge.

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By: Julie Rybarczyk https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-589811 Sat, 24 Mar 2018 16:20:01 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-589811 Oh my goodness, I am so inspired. This is exactly what I’ve been thinking about lately – all of it. I know I’m starving for this kind of unplugging. This is such a gracious invitation to just begin. Thank you!! And thank you for all the real-world tips. They make it feel doable. xo

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By: Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog https://witanddelight.com/2018/03/contemplation-other-side-boredom/#comment-589803 Sat, 24 Mar 2018 15:47:30 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=27556#comment-589803 Love the thought that boredom means something is just around the corner. Sometimes it’s nice to be alone and still with just your thoughts.

Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
http://charmainenyw.com

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