Comments on: Love After Baby: It’s Nothing Like What I Expected https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/ A Lifestyle Blog Fri, 13 Aug 2021 02:31:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Christy https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-558171 Wed, 27 Sep 2017 19:39:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-558171 I loved your article. I had an unplanned C-section, experienced a similar post-partum fog and feel as if I am again dating my husband. Thank you for sharing your experiences and writing, I’ll save this read for friends!

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-550338 Mon, 10 Jul 2017 15:05:48 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-550338 In reply to Brittany G.

It’s pretty incredible how much you change through the course of pregnancy and the first year of parenthood. I remember thinking, “I’m definitely grown up now” after experiencing childbirth. One thing I learned early on is to relax and trust that biology and instinct are extremely helpful 😉

Congratulations on your upcoming birth! so exciting <3

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By: Brittany G https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-550025 Fri, 07 Jul 2017 22:05:39 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-550025 I’m 33 weeks pregnant so your post made me tear up! What great insight and life lessons – I can only hope to be as wise as you throughout this whole becoming a parent thing. Also, the pics of you two are adorable!

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By: Anne https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546776 Fri, 09 Jun 2017 00:04:15 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546776 I got stopped up on the “blow out” part until I realized that “blow out” takes on a very different meaning when you become a parent!

What do you do when someone needs a blowout at DryBar though?

In all seriousness, great post, thanks for sharing 🙂

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546758 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 16:49:07 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546758 In reply to Monarose Ryan.

Oh Monarose! It’s always so reassuring to hear from you. I’ve been working on this brand for almost 10 years now and it’s hard to let it grow and change without worrying you’ll lose the magic. I’m glad we’ve kept you coming back and always appreciate your insight. XO!

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546757 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 16:47:07 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546757 In reply to Rachel In Wanderland.

Rachel! Thank you so much for your sweet comment. You can’t appreciate the good if you don’t experience hardship, and I think that’s why some relationships get stronger with age and experience. We certainly have days, weeks, even months when we’re out of sync, but when it clicks back in place you know that you can make it through the rough patches. Thank you so much for the support and for reading!

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546755 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 16:44:42 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546755 In reply to ashley.

haha! Ashley I love that you follow Joe. I think IG has been around long enough that it isn’t necessarily weird to know what people are up to. He’s a special guy. Glad I get to share a little bit of what I see in him with you guys.

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546754 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 15:55:38 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546754 In reply to Flora.

Hi Flora! Thanks for your note. Dove has been an amazing partner from the beginning and have been super supportive of this dialogue. We feel lucky to find great people (in each other, the WD team, and with business partners) who believe in what we’re doing. XO!

K

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546753 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 15:53:33 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546753 In reply to Keri.

Hi Keri! I’m so glad this resonated with you. It’s never too soon to start thinking about how your relationship will evolve. It’s been so helpful for us. Appreciate you sharing!

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By: Keri https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546677 Wed, 07 Jun 2017 20:09:54 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546677 thank you for these posts. I end up sending them all to my husband as we are preparing to become parents (hopefully soon!)
I also love that you talked about letting someone else in on the action once August was born – as I imagine that must be so hard.
XOXO

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By: Flora https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546666 Wed, 07 Jun 2017 16:35:26 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546666 I loved reading this, Kate! I think you’ve done a lovely job of sharing such a personal post while respecting your partner AND working with a brand – hats off to you. And to Joe too – you sound like an amazing team and I appreciate your willingness to share the journey you’ve been on together so far.

🙂

Flora

http://www.theeverchange.com

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By: ashley https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546658 Wed, 07 Jun 2017 14:36:51 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546658 I love this post Kate. It brought a single lady to the verge of tears. I follow Joe on Instagram (is that weird!?), and while I realize that social is not the whole story, he very much seems to emanate the person you’re seeing.

Thank you for sharing. xoxoxo

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By: Rachel In Wanderland https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546624 Wed, 07 Jun 2017 08:42:01 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546624 This was such a beautiful read, as are all your life posts. I’m far from being a mother or in such a committed relationship but your words keep me looking forward to the future. You hear so much about failing relationships and the impossible hardships of motherhood. Although one assumes the good times outweigh the bad, it is so heart warming to hear it beautifully said. Thank you and congratulations on everything in your life <3

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By: Monarose Ryan https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546597 Tue, 06 Jun 2017 23:18:26 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546597 Thank you so much for sharing this as it is an extraordinarily important lesson to learn (and be reminded of)!

Our daughter is now twelve and my husband and I are beginning to go through the gauntlet of adolescence—so far, it has been hard not to take the hormonal onslaught and confusion personally but it helps to have a patient and loving partner to go through it with. Along with being a family, we are a team. And along with being parents, it is wonderful to remember that we are also lovers/partners/each other’s best friend.

As Rachel said, your blog has always been one of sincerity—and through the years since I first started to follow you it has been a continued place of inspiration, assurance, learning, and fun.

Thank you for your willingness to share! <3

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By: Kate Arends https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546592 Tue, 06 Jun 2017 21:48:56 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546592 In reply to Rachel.

Thanks for your sweet comment, Rachel. I really appreciate that my effort to keep personal boundaries is seen as a positive attribute and that I’m still able to share a story that connects with readers experiencing similar life stages. Speaking of… congratulations on the upcoming big one year birthday (if it hasn’t already happened yet)! I have such mixed emotions about this milestone.

Thank you again for reading and sharing your thoughts here <3

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By: Rachel https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546591 Tue, 06 Jun 2017 21:31:53 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546591 I love your blog, especially how you always manage to straddle that line between keeping it real and protecting the ones you love. I had a baby a month before you, so your posts on the transition to motherhood have been really resonating with me. Totally agree that parenthood both brings you closer as a couple (because they’ve truly seen you at your WORST) but also makes it paradoxically harder because you’re both just so TIRED and busy all the time. I’m still learning how to not just give my husband the leftovers at the end of my day. Thanks for the post — love your adorable little family 🙂

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By: Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog https://witanddelight.com/2017/06/love-after-baby/#comment-546573 Tue, 06 Jun 2017 15:29:28 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=22484#comment-546573 What a lovely read! I’m not a parent, nor am I any close to being one, but this was a great story to read about. Sets me up for what’s to come some day down the road!

Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
http://charmainenyw.com

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